WTF ? its the second time I break a relationship with an LSE ; they are supposed to be my dual. There is actually things I CANT stand with them, yes I cant and will never be used to it.
1) Te dominance : supposed to make me happy with a sort of organisational competence transfert or idk what, but they seem having 0 time for just a bit letting things go, always need to organize something like the place of the toilet brush, especially things that dont correspond to their vision of practicality (ie 90% of what I do) this SUCKS. Im sourounded by Te and my personnality DISINTEGRATE and end up Te anxious at a point I begin to ask me if im not Te phobic POLR
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2) Se demonstrative : on the contrary to the theory, Se demonstrative is OBVIOUS in estj I know, and this DONT FIT AT ALL with my Se least resistance. Yes, yes. Yes im very aware and careful about Se, and ready to run fast when I see an embryon of Se into other. So. some are very self assured controlling brat/auto-convinced sociable even if 0 real skill, worst my last gf was somewhat emotionnaly controlling to , its freak, damn I was becoming paranoid...
3) Fi demonstrative OMG FI DEMONSTRATIVE or the Fi rush, sudden value shot when discussing something calmly with other (especially if no intellectual education), monolog with inappropriate defense of some Fi common place
... They like sometime advice in this area but seem to feel this as a profond attack of the ego, the two LSE I know was really reluctant about refactoring or polishing abrasive corner... Fi discussion are always closed quickly...
now im reggressed and decide like a 12 yo guy that ill never go with another girl even if TRUE and TRUE and PERFECT love.