Originally Posted by
Hacim
I think your response is tinged with Fi and Ne both - SEIs especially tend to go with "what everyone else is doing" when it comes to passing judgments, though you get the sense that they're not confident in this. Their duals, after all, are ILEs - who are some of the most "unethical" people you Fi types will meet. But Ne in ILEs (and other Ne-egos) is good at providing perspective in situations for the SEI.
Thus, I think that your response is what any Ne-ego type would do for a Si-ego type. What you describe is a trait I've noticed in some Alpha SFs. For example, I know an ESE who needs perspective on other related things, such as mental disorder/incapacitation - she only considers that people with more pronounced difficulties "make her and the mood uncomfortable" without realizing that this isn't purposeful behavior - she needs someone to enhance her understanding behind these issues.
I also find it ironic that ESEs are said to help LIIs come off as more humane, but there are some situations, such as my example, in which the inverse applies.