IEEs/ENFps achieving their dreams and goals

[Sirena]

qbsirena06: over the time that you've been here, I've noticed that we value similar things, (esp. Ne & Fi...) Your sense of humor is very apparent as well--irreverent, is that the right word? haha ... You're my identical, I believe.

Yeah, I think irreverent is a good word for it. Haha. And yeah, I feel the identical thing for you too.

[dbmmama]

I'm beginning to think that dbmmama might be ENFp too... I can't tell for sure Fi>Fe yet--but one of these days, hehe

not sure about ENFp, but i do feel a kinship with you, qb woman and winterpark...

[Sirena]

not sure about ENFp, but i do feel a kinship with you, qb woman and winterpark...

qb woman? HAHA. This could also be because we're very cool, ya know.

[kensi]

kensi: yeah, i know what you mean, lol... thank you very much dude. if you post a video anywhere, let me know... maybe talking about sports (haha.) I like that you've come to this forum.

qbsirena06: over the time that you've been here, I've noticed that we value similar things, (esp. Ne & Fi...) Your sense of humor is very apparent as well--irreverent, is that the right word? haha ... You're my identical, I believe.

I'm beginning to think that dbmmama might be ENFp too... I can't tell for sure Fi>Fe yet--but one of these days, hehe

Somepeople seem to have this misconception that ENFps are no good at sports....aka-if you like sports you probably are not ENFp.........you don't know how many times i walked into a group session with strangers (not wearing any sporty apparrell) and i was refered to as the sporty type...mind you though i cant see all ENFps liking that sort of thing...it may be a subtype issue or just upbringing.

I wonder how many people here are real ENFps or other Deltas and how many are Passer-bys claiming to be ??

anyways.....about the video thing ...i don't know --its kinda early...and i don't know what to say...i'm worried i'll start to go around in circles too much and my silly swich will come out too often LOL.... and i'll switch the vid off! ...whoa... like what was the point of that....i'll see though...it may actually be usefull to get further verification.

[dbmmama]

qb woman? HAHA. This could also be because we're very cool, ya know.

dude...

[Sirena]

dude...

[xyz]

qb woman? HAHA. This could also be because we're very cool, ya know.

Excuse me, her name is "what's her face".

[Sirena]

Excuse me, her name is "what's her face".

Thanks for rectifying. I can always count on you for this.

[xyz]

Thanks for rectifying. I can always count on you for this.

Fo sho

[Sirena]

Fo sho

OK Tupac.

[xyz]

OK Tupac.

They used to call me that when I was younger.

[Sirena]

They used to call me that when I was younger.

Really? I'd be curious to know why...unless you're starting to feel I'm trying to get inside your head or something.

[xyz]

Really? I'd be curious to know why...unless you're starting to feel I'm trying to get inside your head or something.

Apperently I used to look like him when my facial hair was just coming in.



That and I ruthlessly killed people.

[Sirena]

Apperently I used to look like him when my facial hair was just coming in.



That and I ruthlessly killed people.

Well, of course. Why that wasn't obvious to me before is beyond me! It all makes sense now.

[kensi]

Apperently I used to look like him when my facial hair was just coming in.



That and I ruthlessly killed people.

Sounds like an ENTj mafia thing ...no?

[dbmmama]

Excuse me, her name is "what's her face".

you wanna fight over it?

[Sirena]

you wanna fight over it?

Fight, fight, fight!

[xyz]

you wanna fight over it?

I do.

[Sirena]

Apperently I used to look like him when my facial hair was just coming in.



That and I ruthlessly killed people.

[dbmmama]

I do.

**BAM** (the first punch!) qb woman i said!

[dbmmama]

**BAM** (the first punch!) qb woman i said!

runs and hides....

[xyz]

You two are funny

Good choice what's your face.
Bad choice dbmamma.

[Sirena]

You two are funny

Good choice what's your face.

[dbmmama]

You two are funny

Good choice what's your face.
Bad choice dbmamma.

i just wanted to see what you'd do. LOL

(impulsive me throws the punch and then goes "what the hell did i do?") not really, i've never punched anyone before. well, scratched a few boys' eyes out when i kid. i have very strong, long nails! be scared, be very scared!

[dbmmama]

It depends what you mean.
I think I'm an IEE, and I am a prototype of someone trying "everything". I've written published music, I have sold paintings, I've developed house-hold products that "everyone" uses, I've published scientific work, I've worked as an engineer, in marketing and as a financial consultant all in big companies, I've worked as a model and a photographer and now I'm planning to write books. I'm very competitive, so I always do well in anything, but I can never stay doing the same thing for more than max 2-3 years. Also there is never enough time to do even half of what I dream of doing, and a lot of my dreams are even conflicting, like being a home mom and being the manager of a business.... It's a little black-white sometimes - I don't like mediocre, it's all or nothing... :-)

BUT - those day-to-day dreams like excelling in my career, writing a book, making music, etc. are not really important in the long run. Those dreams are a little like games I play for the sake of learning "everything" and for competition on my way to reach my REAL goal. The day-to-day dreams can be abandoned whenever a new dream comes along and will be abandoned whenever I don't learn fast anymore. The real ambition however is too important to ever be abandoned: That real goal is to learn more, understand more and to use that understanding in helping others find their true path in life. I guess that others might find me without direction, but I'm actually very consistent in reaching my life goal. It's just a little more abstract than what others might think.

PS. It makes me happy to reach smaller goals in life, and I hate choosing between dreams. Elro is right!

here we go again.

[dbmmama]

At least one of you understand... ;-)

all too well, my friend, all too well. pm me if you want to talk about it more...

[Rubicon]

who be that in your avy ms. bamma?

Was that you 20 years prior with a knight in shining armor?

[dbmmama]

who be that in your avy ms. bamma?

Was that you 20 years prior with a knight in shining armor?

my second son and first daughter. SHE'S the Fe base drama queen. HE AND I have the same personality. he's a drama queen too but in a different way than she. he's physically crazy like me, skinny, wirey and sexual. i'm more of the knight in shining armor type.