Hi @
Eliza Thomason. If I could dislike this particular post of yours I would as it somehow caused a pain inside of my head.
For real - you presented Socionics to three couples regarding your and I would like to stress 'your' diagnosis/theory/view that they are in a Socionics conflict relationship with one another.
This negative information about their partnership would most likely in no way be positive news but be discouraging info and hopefully info they can throw away and remove from their now contaminated minds.
Obviously they are still in these relationships so any negatives encountered must hopefully be equal or outweighed by positives.
Use of any potentially helpful Socionics ideas/information would likely be better suited for an unmarried or non partnered relationship I would think, where there's more leeway, less involvement or less at stake.
For I think that for this info to be of assistance in 'facing reality' the decision to leave would need to be already in play and definitely not based on your view/theory/diagnosis or provided information to any noteable degree.
Would yourself and partner appreciate if someone came and informed you both that your relationship was not an adequate one based on some view/theory or diagnosing technique which the other person holds and you are then handed over vague information on the subject?
Is this not perhaps a bit too interfering?