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Last edited by silke; 11-30-2016 at 06:22 PM.
thanks for translating it! The "Google translation" was very messy...
Enneagram: 9w1 6w5 2w3 so/sx
Everything here looks to be in order.
Hush.
Okay!
1) It's not flirting.
2) I lol'ed at 11
3) I disagree with the p.s bit
Apart from that fairly accurate.
Now this is a story all about how, my type got changed, turned upside down. Just wait for a minute and watch chatbox right there, & I'll tell how Gem became the moderator with blue hair.
In typology central friended and praised, on the picture thread was where she spent most her days. Chilling out, selfies, relaxing all cool, And all typing some people and getting them schooled.
When a couple of girls who were up to no good, Started annoying her & her friends in the forumhood, She got in one little flame war & got pissed off & said 'I'm moving in with that exboyfriend in the forum with the socionics toffs.
So Gem pulls up to the forum for a year without being a hater, And yells to typocentral 'Yo creeps! Smell Ya later', Became a mod in her kingdom she was finally there, To sit on her throne as the mod with blue hair.
InvisibruJim
Yeah that was the one i really was like "ummmmm...."
I actually have always considered myself incompetent in flirting, in that I cant just flirt on demand. In fact when I like someone, i often am totally unable to demonstrate it (I think? Maybe I dont realize i'm doing it...).
I guess friendliness can get misinterpreted as flirting???
Enneagram: 9w1 6w5 2w3 so/sx
Exactly so... my definition of flirting is mainly in intention. If you intend to flirt with someone... or if you intend something romantic(or sexual i suppose) to come of a situation and are acting differently so as to imply that... then yah that's flirting.
Friendliness is NOT flirting.
And i agree, if i wanted to flirt I'd try to but then get all silly and probably fall over and knock my teeth out. Either that or I'd blurt out something random or inappropriate turn bright red and run away...(this has happened). Or another possibility and prob the most likely is that I'd be stifled and not know what to say...
Now this is a story all about how, my type got changed, turned upside down. Just wait for a minute and watch chatbox right there, & I'll tell how Gem became the moderator with blue hair.
In typology central friended and praised, on the picture thread was where she spent most her days. Chilling out, selfies, relaxing all cool, And all typing some people and getting them schooled.
When a couple of girls who were up to no good, Started annoying her & her friends in the forumhood, She got in one little flame war & got pissed off & said 'I'm moving in with that exboyfriend in the forum with the socionics toffs.
So Gem pulls up to the forum for a year without being a hater, And yells to typocentral 'Yo creeps! Smell Ya later', Became a mod in her kingdom she was finally there, To sit on her throne as the mod with blue hair.
InvisibruJim
9. Arguing with Huxley is useless.
@HelenOfTroy and @WorkaholicsAnon another IEE poster commented further down the thread that the way IEEs communicate is often misunderstood as flirting, especially so by SLIs, so to make things simple and easy just tell your SLI that it's not really that, don't leave him to assume on his own
This is another set of instructions for getting along with IEEs that was drafted by a female IEE forum member and posted in the same thread:
1. Never tell Huxley "you should," "you must" and so on. At best, it will be perceived as a violation of Huxley’s freedom and the underestimation of his abilities. "Do not tell me what to do, and I will not tell you where to go."
2. If you want him to do something, offer work that is interactive, during which he will be able to interact with others and/or see something new.
3. If you want your Huxley to take up household chores - help him out, or better yet do them yourself. Believe me, it is much easier to take out the trash yourself in five minutes than to spend half an house removing bits of trash from all over the apartment. While Huxley will be eternally grateful to you.
4. Don’ be upset with his inconsistency - he is always looking for new experiences, new people and relationships, and likes building castles in the air. Do not look at quantity of his friends - it rarely turns into quality.
5. If he finds you interesting, he will always find time to meet with you, if not - a thousand reasons not to come.
6. If Huxley is smiling at you and laughing at everything you say, this does not mean that he is in love with you. He just likes to please people!
7. Huxley ignores another person usually when he was very offended by him or her, or if he is simply not interested in that person. And most often this happens consciously.
8. Do not pressure Huxley to give promises. It is necessary to distinguish phrases "I will try, attempt, give it a shot" and "I will certainly do exactly this." If any circumstances change, the promises may also lose their meaning and change.
9. Huxley does not like gloomy and miserable people if he cannot somehow help them somehow or comfort them. If you need support - he is always ready to become a "knight on a white horse," even if you aren’t friends. But constant whining and bemoaning has a depressing effect on him, and he will run off.
10. Huxley detests when someone is being unjustly hurt, especially the weak and defenseless, he immediately begins to attack the offender. Therefore, in his presence, try not to attack and offend anyone – otherwise you risk losing his trust and affection.
11. More often praise Huxley if he did something good or pleasant for you. He will never get tired of hearing compliments, and he will invent all possible efforts to justify your confidence in him.
12. Under no circumstances make scandals in public! Huxley will never forgive you if you accuse him of something in front of everyone. He will fight back by all means to prove how wrong you are.
13. You should not lie to Huxley. Even if he pretends that everything is running smoothly, this does not mean that he is not plagued by doubts. "You don’t know that I know that you are lying, and you don’t need to know this ... for the time being."
14. If Huxley considers you a close friend, don’t ask "Can I hug you, kiss you ...? '. Just do what you want, and Huxley can easily let you know whether he is likes it or not.
15. Do not rush to fall at his feet, for Huxley likes to win someone over, to surprise them. Before you do anything of this kind, make sure that he truly values you and that he is also invested.
16. Do not repeat too often, "I love you" – that he sees well himself. A kind, gentle look and a prepared dinner will be enough for him.
17. Take good care of his health, of his well-being. It is appreciated. If Huxley is warm and cozy, he will surround you with love and joy.
18. To support Huxley, it is sufficient to say that you're on his side, and those who are against him are spiteful and envious.
19. Huxley does not remember evil (will commit an offense and forget it) and he is not vindictive, he will not conceal resentment for long. But once you have seriously failed him, he will no longer go to you, considering you an unreliable and untrustworthy person.
20. Sometimes we Huxleys play. Play not for the public, but for ourselves. It’s just more interesting like this! We like to dream and come up with new ideas, but do not condemn us or accuse us of lying.
21. It is not true that Huxley likes to talk incessantly. He is just filling pauses in the conversation! Hence don’t be quiet and go mute, you should at least occasionally say "Uh-huh", "Yes, honey, you're absolutely right!” Speaking seriously, Huxley do not like pulling words from their interlocutor if he is not predisposed to the conversation. In this case, it is easier for him to talk of something himself.
ew no
This is good for the most part. I find that *who* I come home to when the day is done makes a big difference in my mood once I'm there, so if you're cool then I'll generally stay engaging.
lol, way to explain my 1st relationship
[QUOTE=siuntal;922038]4. Remember, you will have to take care of you own comfort. Do not delude yourself, if Huxley suddenly decides to feed you, iron your shirts, do the laundry – this is not for long. One day it will turn out that you have nothing to eat, nothing to wear, the shirts are all wrinkled.
Hey, boys will be boys. I've had my idle crushes every now and then, but were I were already in a relationship with someone who I felt satisfied with then it'd amount to just eye candy and I'd move on.
;_; this is me I am literally crying right now
My ideas are stupid, nobody deserves to know about them.
Eh, I just get uncomfortable when people tell me how great they think I am.
I can see how this applies to some IEEs, but I find myself to be more reasonable than that
Don't most people have periodic episode of depression/sadness?
I startle easily.
It's impossible for me to overeat.
I just need to be with someone I can trust, then I'm down for all the sex we can stomach.
Actually i feel like SLIs are the last to assume (or notice?) such things. Maybe because of Fe-POLR?
This list is excellent. Right on the money.This is another set of instructions for getting along with IEEs that was drafted by a female IEE forum member and posted in the same thread:
1. Never tell Huxley "you should," "you must" and so on. At best, it will be perceived as a violation of Huxley’s freedom and the underestimation of his abilities. "Do not tell me what to do, and I will not tell you where to go."
2. If you want him to do something, offer work that is interactive, during which he will be able to interact with others and/or see something new.
3. If you want your Huxley to take up household chores - help him out, or better yet do them yourself. Believe me, it is much easier to take out the trash yourself in five minutes than to spend half an house removing bits of trash from all over the apartment. While Huxley will be eternally grateful to you.
4. Don’ be upset with his inconsistency - he is always looking for new experiences, new people and relationships, and likes building castles in the air. Do not look at quantity of his friends - it rarely turns into quality.
5. If he finds you interesting, he will always find time to meet with you, if not - a thousand reasons not to come.
6. If Huxley is smiling at you and laughing at everything you say, this does not mean that he is in love with you. He just likes to please people!
7. Huxley ignores another person usually when he was very offended by him or her, or if he is simply not interested in that person. And most often this happens consciously.
8. Do not pressure Huxley to give promises. It is necessary to distinguish phrases "I will try, attempt, give it a shot" and "I will certainly do exactly this." If any circumstances change, the promises may also lose their meaning and change.
9. Huxley does not like gloomy and miserable people if he cannot somehow help them somehow or comfort them. If you need support - he is always ready to become a "knight on a white horse," even if you aren’t friends. But constant whining and bemoaning has a depressing effect on him, and he will run off.
10. Huxley detests when someone is being unjustly hurt, especially the weak and defenseless, he immediately begins to attack the offender. Therefore, in his presence, try not to attack and offend anyone – otherwise you risk losing his trust and affection.
11. More often praise Huxley if he did something good or pleasant for you. He will never get tired of hearing compliments, and he will invent all possible efforts to justify your confidence in him.
12. Under no circumstances make scandals in public! Huxley will never forgive you if you accuse him of something in front of everyone. He will fight back by all means to prove how wrong you are.
13. You should not lie to Huxley. Even if he pretends that everything is running smoothly, this does not mean that he is not plagued by doubts. "You don’t know that I know that you are lying, and you don’t need to know this ... for the time being."
14. If Huxley considers you a close friend, don’t ask "Can I hug you, kiss you ...? '. Just do what you want, and Huxley can easily let you know whether he is likes it or not.
15. Do not rush to fall at his feet, for Huxley likes to win someone over, to surprise them. Before you do anything of this kind, make sure that he truly values you and that he is also invested.
16. Do not repeat too often, "I love you" – that he sees well himself. A kind, gentle look and a prepared dinner will be enough for him.
17. Take good care of his health, of his well-being. It is appreciated. If Huxley is warm and cozy, he will surround you with love and joy.
18. To support Huxley, it is sufficient to say that you're on his side, and those who are against him are spiteful and envious.
19. Huxley does not remember evil (will commit an offense and forget it) and he is not vindictive, he will not conceal resentment for long. But once you have seriously failed him, he will no longer go to you, considering you an unreliable and untrustworthy person.
20. Sometimes we Huxleys play. Play not for the public, but for ourselves. It’s just more interesting like this! We like to dream and come up with new ideas, but do not condemn us or accuse us of lying.
21. It is not true that Huxley likes to talk incessantly. He is just filling pauses in the conversation! Hence don’t be quiet and go mute, you should at least occasionally say "Uh-huh", "Yes, honey, you're absolutely right!” Speaking seriously, Huxley do not like pulling words from their interlocutor if he is not predisposed to the conversation. In this case, it is easier for him to talk of something himself.
Incidentally, many a first date never turned into a 2nd date because of #14-16.
Enneagram: 9w1 6w5 2w3 so/sx
I think you guys are just misinterpreting that point. The way I am reading it, it's just saying that IEEs aren't like hyperfocused on getting laid (contrast what's his name.... the weird SLE dude from finland) and life doesnt revolve around the genitalia, because there are so many other awesome things to do and learn in life. IT's not saying IEEs avoid sex or dont like it or something.
Enneagram: 9w1 6w5 2w3 so/sx
So true! My SLI ex was phenomenal at getting me out of the house, mostly on day trips or just fun drives around the neighborhood and a movie. Never failed to cheer me up.10. Huxley periodically has episodes of depression. In general, if you happened to see Huxley in their depressed state, this is a sign of trust. In public, Huxleys do not allow themselves to show it. In this case, of course, you can also do nothing, but it is better to take Huxley to a nice cafe, take her out dancing (preferably somewhere where she hasn't been already). I was under the impression that depressed Huxleys don't want to go out of the house, so the place should be interesting, or at least new. In the extreme case, you can just put her next to yourself and stroked her back. This, oddly enough, helps.
“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage.”
― Anais Nin
Ethical extroverts are uber-crazy. ENFp's are one of them. That's all you need to know.
If you ever feel like you need instructions, the best course of action is to give up.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Originally Posted by Gilly
This thread is dumb.
Now this is a story all about how, my type got changed, turned upside down. Just wait for a minute and watch chatbox right there, & I'll tell how Gem became the moderator with blue hair.
In typology central friended and praised, on the picture thread was where she spent most her days. Chilling out, selfies, relaxing all cool, And all typing some people and getting them schooled.
When a couple of girls who were up to no good, Started annoying her & her friends in the forumhood, She got in one little flame war & got pissed off & said 'I'm moving in with that exboyfriend in the forum with the socionics toffs.
So Gem pulls up to the forum for a year without being a hater, And yells to typocentral 'Yo creeps! Smell Ya later', Became a mod in her kingdom she was finally there, To sit on her throne as the mod with blue hair.
InvisibruJim
This thread makes my liver hurt.
Ok, so
Provide a calm and relaxing atmosphere where there's a lot of talk about pleasant things like dogs.
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Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
siuntal? siuntal didn't author that list... a socionist from Russia did (can someone please write the name if you know?). He just translated it from russian.
Anyway, I think siuntal is IEI, right @siuntal?
Enneagram: 9w1 6w5 2w3 so/sx
I love it!"Do not tell me what to do, and I will not tell you where to go."
Johari/Nohari
"Tell someone you love them today, because life is short; shout it at them in German, because life is also terrifying."
Fruit, the fluffy kitty.
wrap them up in a fuzzy blanket and don't let them go out in the rain
Oh sorry, that's my version.
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Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
IEEs often prefer raindancing.
What happened to Somavision, anyway? Pranked himself this time?