And yet, doing things for others helps you, personally feel good.
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Whether you do things for others as a way of helping yourself feel good about yourself,
As a way of "proving" your superiority over others,
As a way of "looking good" to others, etc
It's still selfishness.
So I guess you think that there is no virtue in your attempts to help others?
Why do you type people maritsa? It's certainly not to help them...it's to help yourself...it's a selfish act.
Why do you feel a need to inform everyone of how unselfish you are?
Why do you feel a need to regularly inform everyone of how helpful you are?
Could it be because maybe your actions don't speak enough for themselves, so you feel a need to give it voice..else other people may not realize this about you?
Why is it so important to you that other people know this about you?
It's obviously important to you that others know, else you wouldn't feel compelled to bring it up every chance you get.
So, surely we can conclude that each time you bring it up, that you're thinking of your own needs/wants at tht moment. And maritsa...according to you, there is no virtue in that.
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All of those are a form of selfishness on your part.
YOU want to be with someone you love
YOU want to take part in an activity
YOU want to share your love
YOU want to share your thoughts
YOU want to answer things
YOU want feedback
YOU want social interaction
Looking at the above, you're quite sefish, maritsa.
And according to you, there is no virtue in your wants.
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And finally, as to your claim that there is no virtue in selfishness,
Believe it or not, when most people finally acknowledge that they get something out of their so-called 'altruistic' actions, and what it its that they get from it, then they are usually more helpful to others. And you consider that to have no virtue?