an ESFP.
It's a strange feeling actually... like I feel the natural attraction but the more I think about it the more I find myself questioning it. It creates a tension.
an ESFP.
It's a strange feeling actually... like I feel the natural attraction but the more I think about it the more I find myself questioning it. It creates a tension.
Interesting.
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Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
Just dont fall prey to your idealism, tcaud. Give in to the random chaos.
Uh oh.
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Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
Or maybe you're IEI and falling for your semi-dual...
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An ILI at rest tends to remain at rest
and an ILI in motion is probably not an ILI
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Looking for an Archnemesis. Willing applicants contact via PM.
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According to various sources conflictors do marry each other meaning they must have found each other attractive enough and for long period of time to go through with it. I've heard some of those marriages don't even have a whole lot of conflict in them. Socionics just isn't everything there is to relationships.
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Socionics: ENTp
DCNH: Dominant --> perhaps Normalizing
Enneagram: 7w6 "Enthusiast"
MBTI: ENTJ "Field Marshall" or ENTP "Inventor"
Astrological sign: Aquarius
To learn, read. To know, write. To master, teach.
It didn't work out. She moved away and it's just no conversation on FB. We have no common interests. She's totally a people person, always involving herself in personal life going-ons.
Too much of a people person. Way too much.
so you didn't meet her on your dating site?
maybe a saint is just a dead prick with a good publicist
maybe tommorow's statues are insecure without their foes
go ask the frog what the scorpion knows
Focus on earning money. Then the women will find you.
OK looking at an IEE now. She seems to be hurting for stability in her life due to a seriously dysfunctional family (I wouldn't know anything about those! >_>), and this seems to put in her a reciprocal impulse. The SEE was looking for freedom; the IEE, is looking for something else.
But she's totally hot and breathlessly beautiful and sweet as snow cream. She seems to value our relationship (at friendship level now) very much, enough that she's not permitting any red flags (I've been running some "tolerance tests", if you catch my drift). I think she values my relationship the most of those among her peers that she has.
You sure make PMs on a dating site sound special, bro. Good luck dancing with dysfunction.
No one can keep a SEE to themselves. Even being with them won't stop them from flirting with the 20 other guy / girl friends they have. They're pure unbridled sexual energy
This is true. I've experienced this first hand. I've also been the recipient of taken SEE's flirtations (they'll do this right in front of their significant others).
However, at the end of the day, most SEE's are not disloyal to their partners. It's not as though they go around rampantly cheating. They'll just get 20 or so other people infatuated with them and proceed to leave them all cold (and often they'll later feel bad about this).
There are two relevant take away points here:
First, if an SEE hits on you, keep up your emotional guard. There's a good chance it's not going anywhere.
Second, if your SEE is hitting on other people, chill out. You'll feel great when your SEE stays with you in spite of the fact that there are lots of other people wishing they could be with him/her.
Last edited by Timmy; 04-15-2011 at 10:17 PM.
Last edited by Timmy; 04-15-2011 at 10:24 PM.
Well they value freedom for others, too, and justice, fairness, equity. Rights and equality.
You are taking duality way too seriously.
I'm definitely the clingy type. Not something I'm proud of, but when I sense "something" between myself and someone else, I immediately start having visions of a wonderful life, kids, yadda yadda. Increasingly more so because I'm 29 and the clock is definitely ticking.
Is this somebody you know well enough? How long have you known her? Is it in real life or is it an online crush?
Tcaud it's okay that you have a serious and even clingy personality but I think sometimes you just need to lighten up. Don't worry, love will find you, but you can't really take it too hard in your heart. =)
I don't really condone Ashton picking on you so much but JESUS CHRIST you're a dork, tcaud. lol. It's okay I love you for it. <3 That means you're one of the good guys.
That was half-sarcasm, half-hope. lol
OK now courting an LIE friend. She's kinda stand-offish, very selective about who comes around her kids. She's gradually relaxing her guard... it's a process that happens over days and weeks, not hours and days. One thing about it is this subconscious tension I'm feeling... I can't shake it. Like I'm straining myself by being nice to her. I asked her what I could do to help her out, and now she's asking for money. Very cute though, with a lot of ambition: she wants to become a forensic scientist.
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Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html