Don't even ask, they're amazing.
Don't even ask, they're amazing.
D-SEI 9w1
This is me and my dual being scientific together
y'all can stfu.
D-SEI 9w1
This is me and my dual being scientific together
*giggles*
Am I your dolly Kam? Tell me, who is this IEI that sways your heart so? I know you, there's someone in IRL isn't there Mr Casanova...? Spill!
Hello, my name is Bee. Pleased to meet you .
I will spill. There is no one INFp who I am interested in at this time. There is this Mormon INFp girl(who I am talking about) who already in love with some college kid. She is just simply amazing. She used to hang out with this scene kids who are still super immature. She recently converted to Mormonism and stuff, and she has grown up a lot from when I first knew her. Anyway, the other kids bother her a lot because she doesn't want to hang out with them any more.
Anyway, I talk to her a lot now, and she has all these dreams of her and this guy(who likes her too, lots) and how she is gonna live in a yellow house, all set up. She loves math incredibly. The way she talks, I can see a lot of her in me, and there is so much (the constant "aspirations" she has, I call them fantasies) of her I don't see in myself.
It is just incredible. She is always telling me how she is looking for guidance, etc.
BUT YEAH BEE, this is this super cute sophomore girl omg she likes the same music I do and she is a just a tiny bit awkward, the way she carries her purse slumped off her shoulder, she is PERFECT. omg you have no idea. idk what type she is but she is SO PRO the second time we talked she offered a hug to me kldsljj;k'l;dfs
D-SEI 9w1
This is me and my dual being scientific together
is this the right time to mention that a lot of infp's have a habit of leading on guys and then it going nowhere
Well I'm going to go out on a limb here.
She has this guy she likes.
You know her, you feel a certain desire for her. Enough desire, that you come shouting on here that you like INFp girls as if you like all of them. Even though that's just her. That means your desire for her is bigger than her -
It's all encompassing to a degree.
So she leads you on, she goes for this other guy. You're fucked. Or you want her - you go after her. But you make it so easy. And you just seem desperate, like a child, who just needs a hug, because they can't cope with their level of attraction for this girl that they can't have, who rejected them.
Which means you're already setting yourself up for rejection. And she's helping you feel better about the fact that she's going to reject you.
So you can reject her. At least to a mild degree. If she's invested, then she won't give a shit in a way that'll make her pull out completely. Instead she'll try and resolve the issue. If she does you can remind her about this other guy -
And then as you remind her about the other guy, then hopefully she can realise it's naughty to invest emotional energy into more than one guy.
Now the thing is, it is actually naughty for her to reject the other guy, and shift her attention to you. So it's best to keep on the naughty path, until she's comfortable with doing things she wouldn't normally do. And if she wants to play the safe path. Well she's going to be a fucking bore anyway.
You have to create a path where she can either shift her love/affection towards you. Or you have to go a different way.
Otherwise you're always going to be second best. And who the fuck wants that.
Or you can go back to your "I need love" dance...
Thanks Red Baron ..
Mercutio doesn't love infp girls.
IEI-Fe 4w3