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    SEE don't know who they are interested in. They just want someone with a pretty face?
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa View Post
    SEE don't know who they are interested in. They just want someone with a pretty face?
    You are bias. Your past should not taint your view of all SEE. Maritsa, let me help you move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rogue View Post
    You are bias. Your past should not taint your view of all SEE. Maritsa, let me help you move on.
    Isn't everyone.
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa View Post
    Isn't everyone.
    What I am trying to say is: an SEE is going to come into your life and you will miss out on a great friendship if you judge that person before you know him or her. Also, I am excited about my trophy. I hope this does't change it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa View Post
    SEE don't know who they are interested in.
    This part might be somewhat true. More than than that I don't think they probably know how to prioritize qualities in a person.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Contra View Post
    This part might be somewhat true. More than than that I don't think they probably know how to prioritize qualities in a person.
    I'm trying to be offended on behalf of my SEE bf, but unfortunately Maritsa's statement has a lot of truth to it. SEE's seem to like a lot of people for often hard to understand reasons - it's like they don't understand it themselves and are unable to articulate it well, so it ends up sounding shallow. That said, I've had a few SEE guys become *really* obssesed with me in my life, not just as a passing crush as it's usually the case (like they told me over a period of 5 years I was still their no. 1 choice if I wanted to date them and they knew like a million people), so I guess there is a certain energy in people they are drawn to above others - let's call it Ni magic : )

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