What draws you IEIs to SLEs; what makes them attractive in your eyes? I've read the socionic descriptions, I want to hear of personal experiences.
What draws you IEIs to SLEs; what makes them attractive in your eyes? I've read the socionic descriptions, I want to hear of personal experiences.
SLE girls.. they just click right. Hard to say why. Its just the vibe they have
their heightened awareness of their surroundings (EP types have a lot of this kind of outer-awareness), their energy and drive (SLEs are usually very much in touch with what they want while IEI's wishes are rather vague and unconscious), their flexibility, ability to quickly re-orient, sponteneity/randomness granted by their irrationality
Last edited by silke; 04-14-2014 at 05:48 AM.
Don't look behind you starfall, because I'm there right now.
She is wiseWhy I love LSEs:
beyond words
beautiful within
her soul
brighter than
the sun
lovelier than
love
dreams larger
than life
and does not
understand the
meaning of no.
Because everything
through her, and in her, is
"Yes, it will be done."
Originally Posted by Abbie
SLE's seem so different from the outside but talking to them you realise you're the same. They make you feel safe and make you laugh without intending to. They know how to smooth talk, they're experienced and very clever but innocent at the same time. The way they are not afraid to stare right into you're eyes and lick their lips.
Hey Glamo get on cam, I want to stare you down
Hahaha
She is wiseWhy I love LSEs:
beyond words
beautiful within
her soul
brighter than
the sun
lovelier than
love
dreams larger
than life
and does not
understand the
meaning of no.
Because everything
through her, and in her, is
"Yes, it will be done."
Originally Posted by Abbie
hot secks~
언제나.
Oh yea starfall, do you go to stickam?
She is wiseWhy I love LSEs:
beyond words
beautiful within
her soul
brighter than
the sun
lovelier than
love
dreams larger
than life
and does not
understand the
meaning of no.
Because everything
through her, and in her, is
"Yes, it will be done."
Originally Posted by Abbie
Social orgasm. Obviously.
Esper, do you stickam?
She is wiseWhy I love LSEs:
beyond words
beautiful within
her soul
brighter than
the sun
lovelier than
love
dreams larger
than life
and does not
understand the
meaning of no.
Because everything
through her, and in her, is
"Yes, it will be done."
Originally Posted by Abbie
SLE are fun, warm, outgoing, they are persuasive about what ideas or parts of reality they believe in; this isn't enough?
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Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
I don't know how anyone can click with them, especially the women. I know plenty of them, including my mom, but recently I met an ESTp and she was all up in my face, which is something they love to do and I hate that. She managed to step on my foot and I just stood their acting all subservient like I always do with ESTps.
EIE tritype 5w4, 4w5, 9w1
As far as we can discern, the sole purpose of human existence is to kindle a light in the darkness of mere being.
Carl Jung, "Memories, Dreams, Reflections", 1962
My number one priority and what makes me most attracted to SLEs is their amazing capacity to sort of naturally tell the difference between my bullshit and my real issues. And they don't really step on my real issues, and if they do, it's rare. But they'll call me on bullshit like all the time. And if I talk too much they tell me to shut up. I like that. I also like how they're pursuing something, 'cause I'm pursuing something, and I have no interest in being with a girl who isn't after anything. How can we be on the same team, how can I support you, if we don't have a goal? And if I'm not supporting you, why would you support me?
So yeah, those are some reasons SLEs are cool. But really, for you, what you need to know is: be yourself. Completely yourself. Don't lie, don't bullshit, don't anything, and IEI girls will like you for it. Obviously if you feel the urge to do something exceedingly stupid/inappropriate, then don't because there's a limit even to what IEIs find charming/cute/acceptable craziness. But short of like full-on crazy (and you probably have very little full-on crazy in you), let it all hang out. Be real. Pursue them like you know you can and want to. Act. Move. Persuade. Do. Chase. They'll eat it up, sooner or later.
Not a rule, just a trend.
IEI. Probably Fe subtype. Pretty sure I'm E4, sexual instinctual type, fairly confident that I'm a 3 wing now, so: IEI-Fe E4w3 sx/so. Considering 3w4 now, but pretty sure that 4 fits the best.
Yes 'a ma'am that's pretty music...
I am grateful for the mystery of the soul, because without it, there could be no contemplation, except of the mysteries of divinity, which are far more dangerous to get wrong.
@morcheeba
low-level ESTps != all ESTps
@silverchris
Very interesting perspective. Will you care to have a personal chat with me so that I can practice my SLE skills on you? I'm intending to catch a few IEIs in my net, and I hope you can support my passionate pursuit.
I'm serious btw.
She is wiseWhy I love LSEs:
beyond words
beautiful within
her soul
brighter than
the sun
lovelier than
love
dreams larger
than life
and does not
understand the
meaning of no.
Because everything
through her, and in her, is
"Yes, it will be done."
Originally Posted by Abbie
Their directness and confidence makes this pressure slide right off of my shoulders; I feel like I'm taken under their wing in some weird way. They're grounded.
I feel almost instantly safe around the right SLE's. They give me practical advice, look me in the eye, and I feel like I can trust them.
I can bounce how I'm feeling off of them, and they help reassure me, a lot like LSI's do. I need someone that can be blunt with me and call me out, like silverchris said, when I need to be called out. They tell me what I need to hear.
At the opposite end of the spectrum, I hate when someone is being vague about their feelings or playing games; I just want someone who can be honest with me and tell me what's going through their head. Not knowing what is going on and having to guess kills me.
Not a rule, just a trend.
IEI. Probably Fe subtype. Pretty sure I'm E4, sexual instinctual type, fairly confident that I'm a 3 wing now, so: IEI-Fe E4w3 sx/so. Considering 3w4 now, but pretty sure that 4 fits the best.
Yes 'a ma'am that's pretty music...
I am grateful for the mystery of the soul, because without it, there could be no contemplation, except of the mysteries of divinity, which are far more dangerous to get wrong.
@chris
Of course I know, dumbass
I need to snare IEIs in general, and since you're a dood, there's no chance you'll fall in love with me.
@starfall
Don't laugh your ass out, it's so seductive. We don't take kindly to that around here
She is wiseWhy I love LSEs:
beyond words
beautiful within
her soul
brighter than
the sun
lovelier than
love
dreams larger
than life
and does not
understand the
meaning of no.
Because everything
through her, and in her, is
"Yes, it will be done."
Originally Posted by Abbie
....
What's the matter silverchris? You don't want to be womanized, then passionately swooned by a man? You do realize this would help reuben 'snag' INFps in the future, do you not?
Last edited by rat1; 09-05-2011 at 03:36 AM.
^what he said.
Perfect mirror there crazedrat, you have perfected the art of ambiguous post tone and intention, coupled with high but subtle levels of mimicry
She is wiseWhy I love LSEs:
beyond words
beautiful within
her soul
brighter than
the sun
lovelier than
love
dreams larger
than life
and does not
understand the
meaning of no.
Because everything
through her, and in her, is
"Yes, it will be done."
Originally Posted by Abbie
Thank you reuben, your approval means alot
@crazedrat
Hey IEI right? I'll make do with you first. Come over here you
She is wiseWhy I love LSEs:
beyond words
beautiful within
her soul
brighter than
the sun
lovelier than
love
dreams larger
than life
and does not
understand the
meaning of no.
Because everything
through her, and in her, is
"Yes, it will be done."
Originally Posted by Abbie
God damn crazedrat, you're too smart for your own good, try to dumb yourself down, this will help you get along better in life. No, I'm serious, people are gonna hate you and you're never gonna get laid because your too insightful. Don't end up like Nietzshe, that brilliant man couldn't get a piece of ass , lol.
EIE tritype 5w4, 4w5, 9w1
As far as we can discern, the sole purpose of human existence is to kindle a light in the darkness of mere being.
Carl Jung, "Memories, Dreams, Reflections", 1962
Nope. They stalk you down, then guard you as their most sacred treasure. I know, because I'm currently selecting the hardest diamond case to place you in so no one can steal you away without being shot in the chest by my palace guardian force
She is wiseWhy I love LSEs:
beyond words
beautiful within
her soul
brighter than
the sun
lovelier than
love
dreams larger
than life
and does not
understand the
meaning of no.
Because everything
through her, and in her, is
"Yes, it will be done."
Originally Posted by Abbie
@morcheeba
Most likely he took your suggestion.
She is wiseWhy I love LSEs:
beyond words
beautiful within
her soul
brighter than
the sun
lovelier than
love
dreams larger
than life
and does not
understand the
meaning of no.
Because everything
through her, and in her, is
"Yes, it will be done."
Originally Posted by Abbie
@crazedrat
I want to play more number games
She is wiseWhy I love LSEs:
beyond words
beautiful within
her soul
brighter than
the sun
lovelier than
love
dreams larger
than life
and does not
understand the
meaning of no.
Because everything
through her, and in her, is
"Yes, it will be done."
Originally Posted by Abbie
Only female SLEs are like doggies.
She is wiseWhy I love LSEs:
beyond words
beautiful within
her soul
brighter than
the sun
lovelier than
love
dreams larger
than life
and does not
understand the
meaning of no.
Because everything
through her, and in her, is
"Yes, it will be done."
Originally Posted by Abbie
Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. An SLE should be more likely than any other type to pursue a person they're interested in and pretty likely to win the affections of their pursued. So an IEI would be "deep" and different enough from themselves to keep things interested when they've won the chase so to speak.
IEE Ne Creative Type
Some and role lovin too. () I too...
!!!!!!
Sometimes when I start talking, I'll pause and apologize for talking too much and SLE will say "no, no, I like it when you talk! keep going!" I guess cause I'm usually not the one doing most of the talking (especially when with SLE-Se who talks all.the.time).
But to answer the question, I'm drawn to them because of their self-confidence and propensity to say what they think, to tell it like it is, to get things done, to make hard decisions without looking back, to think for themselves with their own sense of right and wrong. I like their unapologetic nature and their soft, sensitive heart that would literally do anything, including kill, for those they love.
IEI-Fe 4w3
Too many stereotypes and/or the people you people are talking about aren't SLE. Or atleast not like me. Could be enneagram type difference, but I doubt it.
Meh...too lazy.
IEIs tend to suddenly become very quiet when I'm around.The push & pull, the emotional manipulation, the tendency to just disappear.
When I suddenly become very quiet, IEIs suddenly become very loud. Are we competing for the same resources or are they playing the void?
She is wiseWhy I love LSEs:
beyond words
beautiful within
her soul
brighter than
the sun
lovelier than
love
dreams larger
than life
and does not
understand the
meaning of no.
Because everything
through her, and in her, is
"Yes, it will be done."
Originally Posted by Abbie
Of course not, but I am.you mean to say you're not this iron-willed ripped rambo-macho hybrid of a person capable of making people admit to their bullshit by staring them down while simultaneously jumping off lifting planes and making love to passerby IEIs?
Yes. I would kindly request that you turn around with your rear end facing out so that I can spank the lies out of you.has socionics lied?
She is wiseWhy I love LSEs:
beyond words
beautiful within
her soul
brighter than
the sun
lovelier than
love
dreams larger
than life
and does not
understand the
meaning of no.
Because everything
through her, and in her, is
"Yes, it will be done."
Originally Posted by Abbie