ESxp guys are not that dramatic in my experience. I hate dramatic guys and I have gotten along pretty well with SEE/SLE. I have issues telling the difference between SEE and SLE but I feel like SEE is more likely to get in fights/lose their temper and is probably less cerebral. SLE is more likely to try to argue themselves out of a situation using their own brand of logic. Also I think SLEs care about rules and social standards; the SEE guys I know tend not to care so much.