I'm not sure if I am sp first or second. I'm a major head type, constantly worrying and looking up info, and mentally planning how to handle what if scenarios, etc. Most of that is fixated on health and wellbeing. What happens if R dies or is in an accident or we somehow split up? How would I get by? What things would I do? I kept my crappy van for years as a just in case thing, it could be my home, I knew how I could set it up for living in it. How would I cook? How would I clean? This summer I finally got rid of the van and got a car, but not before getting agreements for loans if something happens and I need to get a vehicle I could live out of.
I also constantly check and double check if I left the stove on, locked the door, etc. I'll check multiple times, not just twice.
I'm constantly analyzing my body, how it feels, do I need to warm up? Cool down? Adjust positions, etc. i attribute much of this to Si seeking.
I have boxes and boxes of books and notes, and hundreds of pdfs related to physical health, nutrition, fitness, mental health, self-improvement, etc.
Now, while I am mentally fixated on these things, I'm not a gut type. I don't actively, physically pursue the common sp materialistic or monetary related stuff. My house is disgustingly cluttered (with the above mentioned boxes of stuff). It drives me nuts. But it's a real struggle to get rid of it because I might need/want the info some day. I'm on disability, so there's not enough to set aside for savings, etc. So instead I've begun working on reducing expenses. Reducing how much electricity we use, how much money we spend on food, etc. Though I still spend on books and such, grrr.
R, on the other hand is sp/so. He does earn good money, good investments, etc. But, he doesn't consider if the house is locked up, lights out, etc. He doesn't get cold easily, or too hot, etc. He doesn't understand my worry fixation. He doesn,t plot and plan about it all, like I do. But then, he's probably an enneagram 9. If I tell him I want something, he gets it for me...eventually.
I would imagine that a heart fixated sp would be the ones that are fixated on decorating their home, making it comfy, fixing it up, remodel parts of it, fill it with sentimental items, develop a strong attachment to it, and be total homebodies.
Oh, speaking of homebodies, R and I prefer spending time at home rather than go out. Neither of us is much interested in having company, though. We don't spend most our time conversing about sp matters, either. He's too much of an introvert to talk much, and I don't feel comfy letting him know just what kinds of thoughts constantly run through my head.