I've been staying with a few family members, and while I appreciate their hospitality in general and it feels a bit wrong to complain at all, I find the constant checking-in on my Si-state really draining and redundant (the family members I'm staying with seem Delta), like it's literally all they ever talk about with me, with each other. Its almost like they're assuming that I'm completely helpless. All that extraneous gives me a claustrophobic feeling. It Is that normal?
There was also an Alpha SF aunt who insisted that we play some bizarre Si game and did a bunch of other things that made me uncomfortable like commenting on my food while I'm eating it, constantly asking me if I'm enjoying it while trying to gauge the reaction on my face to whatever it was I was eating, being overly enthusiastic about the entire process of eating, etc. I didn't vibe with it at all and I really just wanted to eat my food. On our way to the hospital, she also insisted that we take the paths that were 'pleasant' as opposed to the ones that would get us to our destination, which I couldn't help but roll my eyes at. My interactions with her in general rubbed me the wrong way, probably because of the magnitude of what was going on at the time. Her attitude and behavior throughout the whole thing just seemed really inappropriate to me and I had to hold my tongue so many times around her.