So you're saying people can't be grouped together? That there are no common links for how they behave or perceive things? That in your "reality", everyone is completely 100% different, with nothing in common?
I think it's actually very healthy to realize socionics isn't everything, and that in reality people do have many unique differences as well as common similarities. Holding too much faith in socionics alone to predict or help all of your interpersonal relations is a recipe for failure, imo. I agree with that part.
I do, however, think you've gone a bit too far to the other extreme. Calling people "weak minded" for wanting to incorporate some understanding of socionics into their lives is a bit harsh. To me, I get the impression that you're coming from a place of awakening from disillusionment, perhaps feeling guilt for having held such high faith in socionics for so long, and feeling like your time was wasted. But whose fault is that? Is that the fault of the system, or the fault of someone expecting the system to do too much for their lives?
If you join the best gym in town with the best machines, but have been using the machines incorrectly for the past 8 years while going infrequently, is it the gym's fault you're out of shape? Are the people who have been going to the gym successfully and who are in shape "weak minded" for believing in their reality that the machines work?
If you haven't realized my point by now: don't blame socionics for your problems or wasted time. It was never intended to be a complete solution for figuring out your interpersonal relations or your life. It's intended to be a personality theory. If you don't wish to study it any longer, then don't. But understand - the next theory or idea you move onto won't fundamentally change your life around either. Only YOU can do that, in your own reality. Perhaps this is what you actually meant by your post. If so, then congratulations. You have arrived.
I had lots of fun meeting you in Toronto. But it disheartens me to see how lost it seems you've been the past 8 months, posting sappy threads like
Choosing One's Path in Life or
Socioncs and Life. I just get the impression you're putting WAY WAY WAY too much stock in socionics to pick a career or move on with your life. It's okay to feel lost sometimes. We all can feel that way, especially as adults. But man, to blame everything on a simple personality system, it's too much imo. Just become what you were meant to become.
If you need to rebel against socionics to move on, then do it! I give you permission. Go. Perhaps this will be a leap for you that is needed. I hope we can be still be friends even if you abandon socionics, and I hope you find happiness in your life.