Given that intertypes, ironically, seem to be the most arbitrary aspect of Socionics, your opinion plays nicely into mine. I want to agree wholeheartedly, but I'm obliged not to for the sake of not being bound to a narrow interpretation of reality
Whether I agree or not? I like Big Five extraverts, especially when they're trying to get me to like them. But then, I like introverts too, at least when they're high on openness. I almost universally dislike people low on agreeableness. Neuroticism is a mixed bag, and I think it's based on how the person's openness colours how I perceive them as a whole.
People seem most attracted to me for my openness. If I had to fit it to socionics, I'd say people would be drawn to me for being an NF. The harsh reality is that introverts experience the devil effect, being seen as less attractive/friendly/likeable/intelligent across the board simply due to being less socially involved and emotionally demonstrative (if anyone cares, I can go fish up the paper on this), so an extravert being interested in me begins and ends with my ability to make contact with the world and show off how interesting and friendly I am.
Socionics' notion of duality is pretty naive, in my opinion. It needs to be scrapped. The idea that an arbitrary dichotomy determines who is compatible with and attracted to whom is bizarre
It gets worse when you consider that duality in part is an excuse for people to be weak and immature. You should not be relying on someone to come along and fix you up or tolerate your failings as an individual and a participant in society.
Malna also brings up an excellent point. Depending on your type, you may never, ever be involved with something that brings you in contact with your duals. I'm lucky to be in a melting pot group with a diverse representation of the types, with Alphas, Gammas, and Betas. No SLEs.
Anyway, that's my angy rant. To whoever's reading this, it's an ask, but if you're going to disagree with me, let's keep a cool head and talk through my points, ok? If you get angry reading this, I'm sorry. I'm not attacking you or condemning your opinions. This is just the way I see things so far.