Caring for your Delta NF (INFj & ENFp)

[The Greeter]

LSE: Oh Naturally.
I don't think I actually "learnt" anything...
Except I don't think I realised how sensitive you are.
I have had to learn that.

The funny thing is, I feel bad quite often for being so sensitive.

[Wynch]

You make them sound like they're sea monkeys or something.

The title of this thread makes me feel like a plant or pet lol

This is what I thought too. My brain was all "this is so little womany, please let me vomit evrywar." And then I found the sentiment all mushy and nice. And then I felt like puking again. Then the seamonkey picture had me lolling and I got over it.

[somavision]

Give me food and give me women, then clean up after me.
Why?
Because beneath everything else this is what I need and in return I give you all that I am.
Could be seen as sexist. It's not meant to be.
This should go in the thread "Caring for your lazy man"
oh well

[Marie84]

Give me food and give me women, then clean up after me.
Why?
Because beneath everything else this is what I need and in return I give you all that I am.
Could be seen as sexist. It's not meant to be.
This should go in the thread "Caring for your lazy man"
oh well

[Suz]

Sometimes Delta NF's have trouble verbalizing...just listen.
Sometimes they blurt...just listen.
Sometimes they cry...just be there and listen if needed.
Don't force them to be "normal" or do "normal" things in a "normal" way...just enjoy them as they are.
Bossiness or pushiness is very off-putting to us.
We enjoy laughter, smiles, shining eyes, good intentions, happy hearts.

What do we give in return?
All that we can .

I love this!!

Shining eyes, good intentions, and happy hearts is right!

And you're right about the bossiness and pushiness--I am VERY sensitive to that. I've refused 2nd dates on that basis.

[Gilly]