^^ VI MEEEE <(_)>

[Suz]

I am a huge nerd. Yes. I am also one of the most silly, loud, and random. I certainly feel that Fe is a strong point of mine.

Sounds alpha to me.

On the basis of what you've described of your personality and the way you look in your photos, I also vote SEI.

[eunice]

Kamajama, apologies for having to digress to something else on your thread.

What do you think about this quote? Do you relate to it at all?

"The individual prefers to guide others by providing individual rewards and helping satisfy the needs of specific important people rather than through direct leadership or issuing directives. He avoids confrontation and collisions, but becomes fierce and unbending for brief periods of time if they are inevitable.

I would prefer to be a follower than a leader. Rather than volunteering myself, I am usually the leader when someone appoints me to do so. I do not enjoy requesting people to do something, especially when it is something which I dislike to do it as well. As for confrontations and collisions, I tend to avoid arguments as much as possibly as it is something which I feel uncomfortable in. When faced with confrontations, I have the bad habit of ignoring that person at the initial stage, but I will blow up when the person tries to provoke me persistently. This tends to shock the perpetrator a bit because I tend to look calm during the process, but I am actually experiencing a myriad of feelings inside.

He does not resonate with the idea of overcoming challenges or beating the competition, but prefers to listen to his internal desires and care for his own physical, emotional, and psychological well-being rather than doing what the outside world seems to demand or require of him.

I feel pressurized when faced with competitions, mainly because I am concerned about the impression others have of me if I were to fail, as well as how it will affect my personal development in future e.g. not doing well in school will cause my career development in life. I don't mind not been the first, but I mind been the last. If I know that I am weak in something, I prefer not to participate in it as I would like to maximize my strengths and minimize my weakness. I think this is due to the culture of the country I am living in.

He is adept at perceiving fights over power of a confrontational nature around him and is very able to resist them or even actively participate in them if that is seen as unavoidable, but he sees no point in giving them priority over a sense of comfort and well-being. Participation in violent physical activities where such fights may take place, as in some sports, are motivated not by those fights themselves but by the stimulating sensations those activities generate."

This doesn't seem like something I can relate to. I'm not interested in violent physical activities, as I know that this is not something I am good at.

[Beautiful sky]

This doesn't seem like something I can relate to. I'm not interested in violent physical activities, as I know that this is not something I am good at.

You seem very much like a peaceful, peacemaking person who does value Si and sensations but frowns upon violence and you seem to enjoy people who are fun as opposed to depressive melancholic. You would be great in business where detailed work is available and you seem like you would be great at it.

I would prefer to be a follower than a leader. Rather than volunteering myself, I am usually the leader when someone appoints me to do so. I do not enjoy requesting people to do something, especially when it is something which I dislike to do it as well. As for confrontations and collisions, I tend to avoid arguments as much as possibly as it is something which I feel uncomfortable in. When faced with confrontations, I have the bad habit of ignoring that person at the initial stage, but I will blow up when the person tries to provoke me persistently. This tends to shock the perpetrator a bit because I tend to look calm during the process, but I am actually experiencing a myriad of feelings inside.

EII have a terrible habit of not being able to ignor people, this is one place where the peaceful, peaceloving SEI differ from me. I can't imagine, no matter how terrible someone has been to me to ignor them. It's the tramendous empathy and love of humanity in me. That's why they call EII humanist/humanitarian.

Still SEI and EII have so much in common with one another, the passive approach to conflict; EII have Se PoLR that makes it impossible for us not only to ignor people, but to push our point accross when we are faced with Se. Se is much more powerful then us.

For SEI Se is the 7th function, that means they are not locked by it. Also, having Se in the 7th Spot for SEI does cause that thendency to snap, like have outburst of anger.

I don't have outbursts on the outside. I cry and walk away.
If you can imagine, I am as plain jane as can be (you can't tell from my avatar, my ESE FeSi sister picked everything out about the whole thing).

[Mediator Kam]

What do you think about this quote? Do you relate to it at all?

"The individual prefers to guide others by providing individual rewards and helping satisfy the needs of specific important people rather than through direct leadership or issuing directives. He avoids confrontation and collisions, but becomes fierce and unbending for brief periods of time if they are inevitable.

Yep, I agree totally.

He does not resonate with the idea of overcoming challenges or beating the competition, but prefers to listen to his internal desires and care for his own physical, emotional, and psychological well-being rather than doing what the outside world seems to demand or require of him.

I disagree. I am very pleased when I come out on top academically or being challenged to do better. Although, I hate when the world tries to tell me what I must do in order to be "successful". Bullshit, I will make my own way.

He is adept at perceiving fights over power of a confrontational nature around him and is very able to resist them or even actively participate in them if that is seen as unavoidable, but he sees no point in giving them priority over a sense of comfort and well-being. Participation in violent physical activities where such fights may take place, as in some sports, are motivated not by those fights themselves but by the stimulating sensations those activities generate."

I reject aggression. When some kid was calling me a ****** a couple days ago, I was getting pissed off with his comments. The bitch is so scrawny and douchey-looking, he needs to talk shit about other people to raise his self-esteem. I felt sorry for him, it is how he survives. I really was resisting his attempts to try to put me down by using jokes and subtle emotional poking.

I hate fighting, I would rather hug.

[Suz]

LOL aixel, I knew u guys were joking!!

Actually I thought kamajama is a very good looking fella as well. the smile!

p.s. I ascribed the humor to Fe-POLR!

[Mediator Kam]

I am not taking this too seriously either, jeez girl, calm down.

I value you all. Thanks for watching, time to tune in tomorrowwwwwwwww bai