Thanks to socionics

[force my hand]

Thanks to socionics, I know a bunch of acronyms that no one else in real life uses or would understand.

Thanks, socionics!

"Did you know you're ESI?"

*blank look*

"That means you are-"

*blank-look-turned-glare*

"...er, looking very pretty today."

[unefille]

Thanks to socionics, I have a whole new way of stereotyping people and justifying my own flawed behaviour. ftw.

[force my hand]

Thanks to socionics, I have a whole new way of stereotyping people and justifying my own flawed behaviour. ftw.

I'm sure you'll one day overcome that.

[unefille]

I'm sure you'll one day overcome that.

[It was a joke.]

[force my hand]

[It was a joke.]

Likewise, of course.

[unefille]

Likewise, of course.

Dammit, you're too fast with the responding! I was like, duh - and going to come back to change my response, but you'd already struck!! Beaten again - by Delta!!!

[Creepy-]

Dammit, you're too fast with the responding! I was like, duh - and going to come back to change my response, but you'd already struck!! Beaten again - by Delta!!!

That's what you get for leaving us.

[force my hand]

Dammit, you're too fast with the responding! I was like, duh - and going to come back to change my response, but you'd already struck!! Beaten again - by Delta!!!

It's a choice between watching my laundry or refreshing the bored every two seconds.

...pun sort of intended.

[Khamelion]

Thanks to socionics, I have a whole new way of stereotyping people and justifying my own flawed behaviour. ftw.

Word

I also use it to try and explain away bad behavior.




I didn't need socionics to sift through guys....and don't really use it for that much. I'm already pretty picky when it comes to them, I know what I want and don't want. If I did use socionics it would be that much harder...like...if I only looked for my dual.

Just pointless...

I'm open to the idea that the person who is right for me doesn't have to be my dual. There is too many other factors that are not related to socionics that interfere.

[Simon Ssmall]

Thanks to socionics.....nothing changed, yay.

[strrrng]

It definitely has described what it set out to do, generally. Like, why my closest intimate relationship was with an Se-ESTp 7w6 sx/so girl, lol...

But yeah, I avoid deltas like the plague (jk lol). I've developed stereotypes, but the significant traits in interaction and relationships have also become more salient through my understanding of functions.

shrug

[xyz]

Thanks to socionics, I have a whole new way of stereotyping people and justifying my own flawed behaviour. ftw.

And that's no joke!

I really don't think socionics would help us in the long-short-medium term.
And one of the reasons is because no one can come up with an agreed upon consesus for anyone's damn type.

[force my hand]

That's true, but in the broad view socionics is an attempt to make sense of very clear personality differences. If one clashes with a certain kind of person, and that person fits a certain type profile, it seems quite naively idealistic not to make the logical link for future reference based on a fear that you might be 'stereoptyping' (oh noes!11) someone.

Especially considering that most people are fundamentally the same. If you lived in New York your whole life and found your 'soul mate' there, does that mean you wouldn't have found an entirely different 'soul mate' had you lived in Seattle instead? There's nothing one person can give you that you can't get from most anyone else, so on the issue of stereotyping people, there really isn't that big of an opportunity cost.

All the great people I end up not knowing is balanced by all the vapid cunts I've managed to avoid.

[redbaron]

If you lived in New York your whole life and found your 'soul mate' there, does that mean you wouldn't have found an entirely different 'soul mate' had you lived in Seattle instead?

I completely agree with this.

[Simon Ssmall]

I completely agree with this.

Although Id like to be idealistic its how I feel too.

[Hot Scalding Gayser]

Especially considering that most people are fundamentally the same.

Ehhhhhhhhhhh......................... maybe. If that were so true though why can't we all get along? =p Cause fightin' and kickin' make our spoiled American lives interesting?

[Hot Scalding Gayser]

Actually, yes. I don't think most people are fundamentally the same at all. Try again.

[redbaron]

Actually, yes. I don't think most people are fundamentally the same at all. Try again.

I don't think he meant they're the same literally like there are no differences. But what he meant (well, what *I* meant) is that people are people and if you think there's only one person in the world for you, you're living in your own private idaho.

[force my hand]

Actually, yes. I don't think most people are fundamentally the same at all. Try again.

Okay, so you want to live a life of poverty where no one respects you but assaults you daily both physically and sexually, where you never have enough food to eat or water to drink... how absurd.

Clearly there are some similarities across board. What are some others?

-having a life partner in whatever form that may take
-satisfying work
-enjoyable hobbies and free time in which to enjoy them
-a lack of stress

So there's a few ideas, but how coherent are they? Not very, even though they are obvious.

Unless you are a creationist (in which case there's no sense in reading further), you likely are aware of evolution in general terms and how human behaviour is largely geared towards maximizing your resources and potential to mate. Because we're a relatively intelligent species, we also have certain social behaviour that is essentially the same. We've all banded into nations. We all think in terms of us vs them, of which this forum is a prime example. We all follow certain mores and ideas of right and wrong that are applicable across cultures.

You may be under the impression that extreme political views somehow separate you from the flock, but you'd be wrong. If you understand them (which is often sadly not the case), each political ideology is after the same end even if no one realizes it or the method happens to be different. The end result of the holocaust to create a pure 'us' is no different from the socialist's view that society should be an egalitarian, yet still pure, 'us'. The true radical heads for Alaska and lives in isolation without the benefit of any techology - all the poseurs subscribe to Adbusters and drink fair trade coffee while watching Bono interviews on YouTube.

If you're a teenager in the West (or a not very bright adult), you tend you identify with individuality in absolute terms. Essentially this boils down to your consumer decisions and personal appearence, but when it comes to nearly everything else you pretty much act the same as everyone else. Get behind the wheel of a car and you'll be stopping at red lights just like every other asshole. Need money to live? You get a job and be there every morning at the same time, just like every other loser.

Of course, there are a few which don't follow the rules, either because, again, they aren't very bright, or because they somehow believe they are making a statement. Those usually end up conforming or spend time in prison, in which case they get to experience their collective humanity at a much more barbaric level where race decides us vs them and physical size directly impacts your access to various resources.

The only ones who truly are different are those who are literally insane and don't follow mainstream mores. And they usually don't live very long.

So tell me B&D, inform my silly self how you're sooo different from everyone else. I could call you a fag in a certain way and elicit the same response from you that I'd get from 95% of the population. But you're different. Right. *snore*