my best friend is an MBTI ESFx. i love her as she's so loyal and a great listener (except lately after she got engaged - priorities are beginning to split) but she does match the stereotypical female image. loves shopping, can't resist a sale, loves gossip mags, doesn't like to think about serious or difficult issues... or thinking per se. she's not dumb. she's a pretty good doctor and knows her stuff. but we're very very different.

what does an ESFj male look like? i don't think i'd know if he's in the next cubicle.