Does anyone here have better relations outside their quadra than in it?

I am not into some discussion that I am type X because of some irregularity. It is just that I find it somewhat irritating that every basic part of socionics works except for my own personal experience. It has led me to believe that relations with people have more to do with personal values than anything else. It just happens that people generally get many of those deep rooted values from their type. However, I think I broke the link between my personal values and my inherent values a long time ago. This might explain why I don’t get along with people I should and visa-versa according to socionics theory.

I have seen examples of my case in many other people, albeit in much smaller degrees. What do you guys think? I am looking for different points of view, and not the “you are type X” explanations.