I met an ESFj recently, and we're in the early stages of an intimate relationship (yay ).

I know that we are supervisory relations, which supposedly aren't good for close relationships, but I find him really attractive and want to give it a go.

He is a little apprehensive about getting physical because of past experiences (and I am too a little), any ideas on how to help that?.......give him a lot of afformation maybe?

Any tips on how to get along with an ESFj's generally?

And do you people like physical touch generally, being Si I really like physical touch, holding hands, cuddling etc, do you people like a lot of that stuff too?