Quote Originally Posted by LokiVanguard View Post
heh, I don't know, I don't know if I'd even hang out much with deltas, sometimes I can be too hermit like.

So they're supposed to be stress free and joy making huh??? Even INFj's???
I better clarify that: INTERACTIONS with deltas are stress free and joy-making, but detlas aren't necessarily so. I am always stressed out - my stress, overcommitted-ness and hyper-activity (rather than hyperactiveness) is actually a source of amusement to SLIs I know. INFjs actually seem very serene to me. I think they might help hold me steady.

It's just so easy to be misinterpreted by people of other quardras. I have a lot of Beta friends and I get along well with most of them (bar the ISTj, who is always levelling a doubting, piercing look at me), but there is always the thought at the back of my mind that I can't really relax and be me, in case they misinterpret the tenor of something I said. I have great ENFj friends and we have completely different ways of approaching issues in that we see different things as problematic.

And it's OK if you're a hermit - I find delta really easy to be quiet around. And Fi means (for me) that often, disappearing for weeks or months hasn't harmed our friendship or in fact, even changed it much.