Originally Posted by
ScarlettLux
Imo, I think Fi-valuers hold their emotions in because they don't want to damage their static interpersonal relationships with others, and this can seem fake to Fe-valuers because they are not truly emoting what they feel AT THE MOMENT. Instead, they opt out to be (in THEIR opinion) wiser by controlling intense emotions so that the long-term relationship will not be affected. This to me is really beneficial for Fe-PoLRs because they are overwhelmed by excessive outward displays of emotion. They don't understand that it doesn't necessarily change the TRUE inner feelings of someone towards them -- they get scared by the intensity of the "present" emotion and feel like perhaps the entire relationship is ruined, or just have no idea where they stand anymore. This is why Fi-seekers need a more stable base, more stable emotions.
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