fwiw, I don't like to make a big deal about this kinda stuff, but i don't wanna be misunderstood by ppl, ya know? so i'll clarify... It's come up in PMs w/ various ppl too...
i don't consider myself "gay." e.g. non-gay stuff has constituted most of my experience... recently, i got into a relationship w/ a guy though--and trust me, i'm learning a lot, lol... i guess, for me, it's more about the other person's qualities, guy or girl... This is a recent development, i.e. in hs, I was not open-minded to this kind of thing.
i don't wanna put a label on myself, and i really don't want one put on me... i hate talking about this stuff, lol, it makes me feel exposed and like i might be creating differences w/ ppl who don't like it in principle, so I guess I'll stop... this is not to be confused with "i am ashamed," b/c i am not. at all.
This thread is about Joy--and yeah, I'm more comfortable talking about that as a topic... I like and respect her a ton.
I agree that she's LIE... It's become more obvious to me over time... I really respect how she continues to improve herself and expand her horizons, how she's open to many different ideas... There aren't a lot of ppl like that, in my experience. She is very intelligent... DiscoJoe is lucky.
yeah man, I doubt that you're ISTj. lol.