I'm not sure about other INFjs. Here's what I respect and/or love in people:

-kindness and someone who forgives
-sincerity
-intelligent yet humble
-friendliness
-sensitive and caring
-smiling
-confident and not arrogant
-someone who doesn't get into conflicts for the sake of arguing
-good listener and doesn't talk too much
-loving
-people who love animals and children
-people who are stable and secure
-people who don't pressure me to do crazy things like bungee jumping or go for multiple roller coaster rides.
-people who take good care of their image
-patience