When reading about your Enneagram type does not make you a little bit uncomfortable, or doesn't irk or annoy you a little at least in the beginning, it is probably not the right one.

Reading about the flaws of your Enneagram type should really hit a soft spot in you. You should go "Ouch, yeah, that is me, ugh." It needs to sting a little. It needs to frustrate you a little (or a lot).

Whenever someone speaks too freely and casually about their Enneagram type, it is rather obvious it is most likely not their actual type, but just a wing, a fix, or neither.