Hello, I am an ILI-Ni and I believe I have found a SEE-Se which excites me very much. We like each other a lot and never fight but we have many misunderstandings so sometimes I worry that he is actually my conflictor, ESE. I feel like I value our relationship much more than he does, and he has become more unlike his past self recently which scares me very much. How can I distinguish whether he is a SEE or ESE? I'm sorry if this seems shallow to people but it's very important to me.