also, did you ring him to tell him that you emailed him, and that you'd like him to at least read and acknowledge it.
also, did you ring him to tell him that you emailed him, and that you'd like him to at least read and acknowledge it.
I have to go buy some cigs...smoked the last...and Im gonna go take a long ass drive with my ESFJ friend...ill check this again when I gets back
Yesterday I knew nothing, today I know that.
No. I know he gets emails on his phone. He's always read my emails, even when they were "im bored and figured Id write non-sense to you"....so, it's not a question of if he read it. By now, I know he has, cuz he checks his email all the time. At least once a day...like I said, plus he gets them also on his phone.
I'm not overly concerend if he didn't read it yet either...or that he's taking time to respond. I know he's either giving himself, me space and/or contemplating the situation.
If he just doesn't want to respond because he's chicken-shit and thinkks its a load of crap...then he's not the person I thought he was. I know that's not the case...so I'll go with the former.
Yesterday I knew nothing, today I know that.
Well, maybe it'll trigger him to respond. That's what you want isn't it?
Wee it's all very complicated. I realised a few things. You're discussing issues etc. But really maybe you should be focusing on the basics.I'm not overly concerend if he didn't read it yet either...or that he's taking time to respond. I know he's either giving himself, me space and/or contemplating the situation.
It's much better with these things to have good rapport, rather than just kind of keeping to words only.
Maybe there's a place where you two could be open with each other, and you had a good connection. You know it's like you have to focus on where you two can go together to get past this point. Not just describe where you're at, and all the various intangled things about that. It's a big jumbled mess... and y'know everyone needs a bright future happy place to move towards. Relationships are meant to build us, not tie us up in details.
Haha, fuck I don't know how I'd respond if someone said shit like that to me... hangon I'll check..If he just doesn't want to respond because he's chicken-shit and thinkks its a load of crap...then he's not the person I thought he was. I know that's not the case...so I'll go with the former.
Let's see:
"Sorry, I've had a lot on my mind. I'll get back to you when I've got more time."
ie: I haven't got the time / mental space / energy for this. Maybe if I drop it for a while, you'll get over yourself. And then we can just carry on as if nothing happened. And I'll change the subject a few times. You'll bitch how we never talk about our issues. I'll say our relationship is fine. (and you just take yourself too seriously)
krae, well there's still the odd one or two or three. and more when i'm drinking... it's a ... process..
I think I had four today. It's kind of bad. I've been kind of down though.
Well, fuck, I hope things work out okay for you ESTP. I'm going to bed. It's after 1 am, and I have work in the morning.
But yeah, I couldn't deal with that shit. So if you've got someone who can.. they're a stronger man than I.