A lot of delta NFs seem to happen into relationships because someone 'wants' them.

And as we know, sometimes Delta NFs don't make the best relational choices in terms of ending up with people who are actually good for them.

I'd like NFs to comment on the nature of being pursued by someone, and feeling wanted, and how that impacts your feelings about relationships, especially personal ones.



Everybody enjoys being pursued somewhat, I know. But delta NFs have this interesting mixture of not wanting to be too strong, but, still being very influenced by 'how much someone wants them'.