I always like enfp's and am very attracted to them as friends. But then there starts to be some kind of strain and we start to disagree and become offended by each other. It is as schroedinger's cat says - the enfp gets offended by a lack of sensitivity; for myself, I get offended by what I see as emotional manipulation, in the past anyway.

I'm starting to see that enfp's really don't mean any harm and if they are manipulating, they try to emotionally manipulate for good purposes at least. But I do often feel somewhat betrayed by them because they're everybody's best friend not just mine.

I wonder if enfp's would see entp "insensitivity" any differently? Entp's really don't mean any harm; we're just not focused on feelings and relationships - we're usually thinking about some wild scheme lol.