A sort of top-down approach instead of a 'bottoms-up' but...
I think a great way to find your type is to look at the generational temperaments based on your personality.
So therefore,
alpha = childlike
beta = adolescent
gamma = adult, middle-aged
delta = old age, 'old soul'
Of course everybody has a mixture of those qualities, but people clearly fall in those patterns.
I'm sure your mind is already formulating many ways why you disagree with me but I mean. Why? Those archtypes make a lot of sense to me, (unlike the erotic attitudes which are bogus)
I think you could also say:
Alphas: Needs a place to explore the world, group harmony, a place to play and be comfortable around people. Needs to care/protect many people, and be cared/protected by many people. Needs to father/mother people but in a way where everybody is a kid again. Just like a little kid. CLASHES with gamma: I want to be a kid, stop trying to make me an adult!
NEED: Healthy Id
Beta: Needs a place to work out their emotional issues, their subjectivity. Needs people that understands them internally and their individuality. Needs boosts to their self-confidence. Needs people not creating arbitrary laws that inhibit their personal freedoms. All just like a teenager. CLASHES with delta: Stop trying to tell me what to do!
NEED: Healthy Ego
Gamma: Needs a place to fit in default-y in society, needs a regular job to work hard in. Need to be responsible, and teach others how to be responsible. Need to be independently powerful/financially successful, and share that with a special someone. Needs to both challenge the world, but still work with what we've got. Just like an adult. CLASHES with alpha: You're not a child, grow-up!
NEED: Balance of all three (Probably relates to gamma's 'peculiar' nature)
Delta: Needs to uphold traditional mores, needs to create moral structures in which everybody behaves. Needs to tell other people what to do in their life. Needs people to give up their subjective wishes for the team. CLASHES with beta: Stop acting like an emo teen, you need to get over yourself and stop being so selfish!
NEED: Healthy Super-Ego