the part of the profile where it mentions how they can feel attracted to someone from a distance, but never show it for months and even years, which in practice I've found to be true among male xLIs. Usually, the more they emphasize their Fi hidden agenda (it is the inert Ni/Si xLI subtypes that put heavier focus on mobilizing function) and the more strongly they ignore Fe - the more inclined they are towards contemplation, and, subsequently, towards idealization of the person in their mind instead of attempting to assess and influence the actual events that are transpiring.
Behind his courageous, solid appearance hides impossible shyness and indecisiveness. His understanding of relationships is poor, thus he does not see when he should show initiative and when it's unnecessary.
Relations with GABIN usually happen accidentally - he himself does not understand where they came from and how they originated. He is capable of falling in love from a distance, only by eyes, observing the person who randomly captured his heart for a long time. In this case, being a contemplator by his nature, he can spend months and even years in this state and not take any action.
GABIN is reserved (because he is easily wounded), and does not like to put his feelings on display for strangers. Fact is that he is not so confident in himself, as it may seem.
Originally Posted by siuntal
the part of the profile where it mentions how they can feel attracted to someone from a distance, but never show it for months and even years, which in practice I've found to be true among male xLIs. Usually, the more they emphasize their Fi hidden agenda (it is the inert Ni/Si xLI subtypes that put heavier focus on mobilizing function) and the more strongly they ignore Fe - the more inclined they are towards contemplation, and, subsequently, towards idealization of the person in their mind instead of attempting to assess and influence the actual events that are transpiring.
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