That's a perfect description of how I behave. I find it really easy to stand up for somebody else's rights, protect them etc and I do it whenever it's needed. It's more difficult for me to defend myself. I don't know, I was born to please people I'd quess .
Yeah, I had a bit tense situation with my INTj friend when he said he wasn't allowed to say vulgar words at our mutual friend's place, he did the washing up when she fed him and he wasn't allowed to belch .
He does all of these things at my place but I talked to him and he's going to stop .