I would probably listen and at least pretend be interested because I have a massive ego and love it when people talk about me.
However I fail to grasp the relevance of this to what is being discussed here. I said nothing about Joy's type (although I do have many thoughts, as she well knows). And I happen to know Kelly fairly well (perhaps not as well as Joy, but I do know her personally), which neither you nor Joy can claim of me (although I feel that Joy does have some idea of what I'm about; you just feel threatened by me, as far as I can tell).