Thanks muchly for everyones ideas and advice on all the other threads I've posted... been very helpful!

But anyway, I was wondering if anyone feels like:

a) Clubbing, going to clubs in so boring, unless there's something in it for you? Majority of my friends seem to love dancing, drinking a lot and being in the club atmosophere. I can fake it for so long, but half the time it seems so pointless unless I'm after a guy, getting drunk out of my face (v. unlikely!)
b) Secondly this brings me too, this general idea of everything having to have a purpose to do it. I notice other people can freely socialise and seem to enjoy it, but I am very enthusiastic towards socialising and making new friends when it fits my goals, plans... if it doesn't, then I'm really interested! Still, I won't let go of the friendship, just in case I need it.

Anyone else feel the same ever?