Hey ENFp girl.

Your post was basically the typical ENFp - ISTp post at the moment. They are all the rave

The problems you are having are basically identical to everyone else. It proves that duality is not always some massive overwhelming thing, it needs to be nurtured over time etc.

My advice is yeah bugger it make the first move. Even though i also get on with ENFp girls quite well, a full blown relationship wouldn't last long..