and although it's funny it's a very accurate distinction. An ESE will be restless and more of the upbeat concerned mother type while the SEI will have their eyes on the chips. There's always something creative to do in the food department. SEIs will have an exceptionally good time with food and some people cracking up crazy stuff. The ESE will be more conscious of proper behavior and less edgy. Both know how to have a good time but the ESE is just more organized and less "insane".