YES that's it Kirana! You're DEFINETELY an INTj. That's the answer I was looking for. Thank you for explaining it in such detail, I couldn't have done it better! I'm glad I'm not alone in the world!

i often feel like my body slows me down... i hated the fact that i didn't know what to do with my body.
EXACTLY!, and that's precisely why we don't like to receive orders, because we are aware of the Se (force - volitional sensorics) as the greatest weakness and we try to enhance it by ourselves, without others making suggestions in this direction or helping in any way. I for one, I prefer to assume the tasks involving Se by myself.

i always view my mind as separate from my body
I totally know what you mean!!!