To be to the point, what do you look for, or what are you focusing on in that atmosphere?
Is it just what you feel?
Are you constantly reading others for their interaction? I'm not sure what you do.


I was originally going to title this thread "how to use Fe properly", because, I don't care what you type you think I am, I am not good with it. I don't particularly like it, but apparently lots of other people do. And I want to learn more about it.

In general, in certain group settings, I am lost.


Again, I don't care if you disagree with where this comes from (in regard to my type) or not, just take the following quote at face value:
The individual makes an effort to adapt to the prevailing emotional atmosphere, especially in group situations, and tries to promote a positive emotional environment, as in making positive or witty remarks, in the presence of individuals he is already somewhat acquainted with and appreciates. Such efforts, however, are normally low-key and of short duration; it is difficult for him to display emotions more complex or intense than enthusiasm. He is essentially unable to participate in a group atmosphere where intense emotional expression as in loud laughing and mutual jokes are prevailing. The individual makes an effort to be aware of the need not to disrupt the prevailing emotional atmosphere but he does not succeed for any length of time if that would clash with his inner emotional state and private feelings about the other persons present. A typical example is the person who, in a group of people exchanging pleasantries and casual conversation, will occasionally correct erroneous statements made by others, in a way that can be perceived as annoying, despite otherwise making an effort to abide by the prevailing emotional atmosphere.
That is basically how I am. I don't know what to do about it. I feel like I am left out of certain interactions in certain groups because of this, and I don't want to be. Not so much left out, but I wonder if it is being detrimental to my interactions with certain people, in one of my organizations, because I don't easily interact in those ways.

This is not necessarily about , but, being socially smooth in a situation where there is a lot of Fe, or a lot of that kind of camaraderie.




To be to the point, what do you look for, or what are you focusing on in that atmosphere?
Is it just what you feel?
Are you constantly reading others for their interaction? I'm not sure what you do.