Songs that reflect the Romantic Styles.

[suedehead]

basically the caregiver-infantile seems like a bit "milder" version of agressor-victim. I don't think the names (let's be honest each an every one of them somewhat offensive) really show the subtleties in differences sometimes. Probably the quadra also influences how the relations play out. I can only imagine ESE caregiver being different than SLI caregiver, same with SLE agressor vs ESI agressor.
if it's a spectrum then for the above four (I realise there are more caregivers and agressors than that) I'd place them
caregiver <---- ESE ---- SLI ---- ESI ---- SLE ----> agressor
(i.e. song from #33 would be more ESE than SLI, while song #32 doesn't exactly make me think of SLE right away, more like SEE)
That's the way I see it currently. Someone please correct me if I'm wrong.

I mean, when you listen to Frank Ocean's (ESI) lyrics I get subtle victimy/passive/melancholy vibes with the flowery, symbolic language he uses, but you can still sort of tell that he's the 'stronger' one within the dynamic. Like he's just holding it back a bit. It's hard to explain. The Agressor in him's probably more obvious in this one: