Kirana, thanks for your advice as well.

I really didnt' give her gifts. However, I am a film fanatic. I let her borrow some of my more sentimental movies. I let her see some of the films that mean a lot to me. She seemed to appreciate that.

I do remember her getting me a gift later in the summer. It was an old book she had found at an antique store. It dealt with one of my favorite subjects. I was very happy that she remembered my interests.

Side note about books: I love books. And she does to. I remember one evenings discussion at a diner we ate at. I had mentioned how much I liked the smell of old books, you know-an old dusty smell. She laughed and said that she like that smell as well. (I am getting way too silly now, but that discussion did take place). It was little things like that that I appreciate.

I know that most INTJ are not too sentimental. But there are a few things that are very sentimental to me. And I don't let but a few people know things like that. I felt that I trusted her enough to let her in on them. (She revealed her self too).
I really connected with this person on an intellectual and emotional level. I should have realized that all good things must come to an end.

joegeo