INFjs/ENFps saying what you think

[Lobo]

The relief of not feeling like I've been walked over because I held back when others don't?

Hmmm. Well, I have a kung fu style mentality when people say mean comments to me. I try to redirect their negative energy back to them, and never be the one to start it.

[The Greeter]

Like you, Danielle, I think of a lot of snarky comments but eventually delete them. Sometimes, though, I let some slip in this forum. In real life, I am an honest person and have a reputation of being one. So much so that whenever I do say something bluntly most people, rather than seeing it as a snarky remark, see it as a genuine commentary without any malicious intent.

For me, the question is what would you gain by throwing snarky comments? I don't know what kind of feedback I would get that's actually useful if I did that.

Moreso than feeling that you haven't been walked all over, to me, is to let them know that they are either behaving foolishly or saying something without putting serious thought into it.

[ShiningLunette]

In real life, I am an honest person and have a reputation of being one. So much so that whenever I do say something bluntly most people, rather than seeing it as a snarky remark, see it as a genuine commentary without any malicious intent.

i relate to that. This has been my life experience as well.