Development of Ep-Ip duality

[munenori2]

I think it's pretty damn good.

[Microknight]

Truth. Where'd this come from?

[Creepy-]

Hah, I guess curious minds want to know the source... It came from this, which zenbrat wrote. I thought it was very insightful, so I modified it a bit to fit Ep-Ip relations in general [at least in theory] and posted it here to see what you wise people would think.

It fits Ep-Ip duality well imo, but I was curious whether it was a forer thing [as someone mentioned] or actually related to irrational relations in particular...

[strrrng]

I found this quite accurate. Irrational duality definitely has a more sporadic, somewhat polarizing quality. Overall, I think the description applies more to IxFp-ExTp duality.

[Suz]

bump

due to recent events

[Sumer1an]

Yep... I've pretty much had that exact same experience with my dual. She seemed so flighty to me.. like she no longer cared so I just gave up with her. It pretty much ruined the relationship. Later I realized that she actually did still care and she hadn't known she was doing anything wrong. So i came off as the paranoid one... such a horrible relationship that was.

[NewBorn STAR]

Same as Sumerian.

But now its round two.

Wish me luck peoplz

[Suz]

so i guess my big question is, since this is how Ep's and Ip's naturally act, what exactly is meant by "acting natural even if it makes you feel vulnerable", in order to save the relationship?