What Pedro said about not having a personality is actually quite astute. Sometimes i do feel as though this is true. I personally spend so much time trying to improve that i never actually live and follow the things that i want to do.

Anyway another possibility is that Pedro hasn't seen the true ENFp personality because he never gets close enough to see it. He is definately not an ENFp.

Anyway i have lost respect and have put him on ignore now.