Identical brain structure? How do you know that? Also, if they were to produce identical results, then the relationship would not be complementary: they have to produce complementary results.Originally Posted by mikemex
Lack of negative criticism doesn't imply what you say: if the results are what we seek, there isn't going to be criticism no matter how they are carried out. To imply that this means that the behaviour makes perfect sense is something that is contradicted by the very same thread you are posting into, to be honest.What makes our dual attractives is exactly that, empathy. To our dual, our behaviour somehow makes perfect sense and thus produces a feeling of being completelly understood. If there is a way to tell if you're among duals it is to notice the lack of negative criticism.
I can agree with this. Even though, it cannot match "perfectly" the thoughts because, if that were true, again, there would be nothing to duality.What duals do in a relationship is to make the concious mind aware of what the unconcious mind is thinking. Our dual's advice is always so accurate and useful because it matches perfectly our own thoughts.