Fe Fi ?

[redbaron]

You could certainly be right; in broad terms I'm just describing how the two feel to me. One flows around me, the other thwacks me on the head.

thwack! thwack!

[redbaron]

I always feel like I mess up around Fi people when I was just trying to make a good impression....when I was fucking being myself...."calm down".....I hate that.....I feel like I'm walking on eggshells around Fi people...it always feels like they're judging me......reading into me, my motives, finding manipulations and tricks and slyness where there isn't any.

I hear ya. I've felt similarly about INFjs. And then it feels like there's so much disappointment--I can see it in their eyes, even when I'm trying my best. I feel as though I've let them down, simply by being myself. Makes me want to just go away.