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Last edited by Hiraeth; 03-20-2016 at 09:03 PM.
THis is an NF. Mby a Beta NF because drama and change .
Last edited by Amber; 01-12-2015 at 02:45 PM.
Welcome to the forum.
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
I get an NF feel too but by the questionnaire no particular type jumps out at me. My sister (EII) and I could have answered these questions very similar to Lithe and my EII sister's relationships over the years have had plenty of drama and change. She just hides it from others more than I do and she is quicker to put a positive spin on the changes in her life even when she sees them as negative, in her heart. I analyze first then see the positive. If I deem them negative I will just accept that it is what it is and move forward. She will continue to look for more opportunities and the possibility that it will still turn out exactly as she wants it to.
My drama tends to spill out and effect the whole family, especially when I don't want it to, (I guess my drama is more large scale than hers) and hers is contained within the relationship. She even hides it from me sometimes and we are very close. She will share more with my ESE sister than me. I guess I am not as good a listener as my ESE sister.
My sister does seem to hate violence and conflict more than me. She tries to be a peacemaker between others even if she doesn't have a stake in the outcome. I think she may be a core enneagram 9 though and she is sp/sx. People have said her energy is heavier than mine, even though I am an Etype 4. I think I understand what they mean. Fe vs Fi perhaps. Not sure if any of this is helpful. Might even be more confusing.
I go now....
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
I would like to hear a EII saying this:
Nothing is steady, nothing is granted, conquering all the time.
What are your most important values?
No clue, my values weirdly shift upon people I have in front of me.
Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?
I am not religious but I believe in otherworlds, spirits, unexplainable power, reincarnation and fate.
If things happen, it’s because it’s destiny. The world cannot be assessed objectively, there is something mysterious and unknown behind.
-- and this:
advice regarding dieting (which I follow quite randomly, by phases, I either eat too much or nothing, super healthy or like a trash).
- and this:
I can hoard stuff and clean at the very last moment when I know that someone will pop up at home.
I have a box with clothes to iron, waiting since August.
My wardrobe is full of surprises too.
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Type : IEI or SEI (the former as the first choice, given the supernatural mumbo, reincarnation, and fate)
Last edited by Amber; 01-14-2015 at 01:12 PM.
I just saw that you haven't finished your Questionnaire. Indication for your type maybe? jk
Last edited by Moonbeaux Rainfox; 07-12-2015 at 08:26 AM.
well... a lot of it reads like by-the-book Se dual seeking. -- I admire powerful personalities who can bend others and get what they want from them, something I need to learn.
Your questionnaire could point to emotivist, like you reach out to people, you're not afraid to contact them on an emotional level, but therefore you might have trouble to distance and say no? -- Learn to say no when needed. Learn to feel less involved in unimportant situations.
Emotivists: distance themselves form requests of others to do or consider something with greater difficulty than from emotions and worries of others.
IEI > ILI might be possible, I mean just going by book theory ILI, EIE -- Constructivist.But well it's all up to you. This questionnaire is only just a little glimpse into your inner world, so you decide.
Last edited by Moonbeaux Rainfox; 04-06-2015 at 09:08 AM.
Welcome to the club, I mean some of them are not mutually exclusive and I think people can do both, or it isn't very clear why one type is this and the other one that? depends... questions over questions ... that's why I stressed by the book theory.
If somebody irl told you this, it could be an indicator that I didn't pulled sth. out of my ass or saw stuff that isn't there, but well in the end you probably know best. Maybe roam the forum here and there, maybe there is more stuff going on and only time or interaction brings them to light?
Last edited by Moonbeaux Rainfox; 04-06-2015 at 09:08 AM.
These are all the things I can see my sister saying with some variation. I was able to eliminate the first two things you listed though.
I am not saying Lithe vibes delta in any way but these are not things I would use to dismiss it. She does vibe "light" to me and of course I am going to be drawn to people who express interest in the same things I do since it is not very common around here. It got my attention.
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
"Dostoevsky" is half a devil on the inside ...do you think it's for nothing that this writer (EII label in Socionics ) had immense insight into good and evil ( emphasis ) and was so versed at portraying characters who were demonic or struggled against their darker side at least ? I think this type is just much more private and mby subtle in its dealings ...he or she would not boast about anything like a Fe does but prefers to philosophize on the nature of evil and myb lead debates in their inner sanctum instead of using something like this in his / her social persona to seem cool , like you kind of do .
Last edited by Amber; 01-15-2015 at 10:26 PM.