Quote Originally Posted by jewels View Post
Jem, this group sounds kind of horribly stressful. Everyone's late or leaving or ordering or sulking, right? Hopefully that'll improve. Do you find yourself taking the lead at all? Because I know an ISFp who, despite not liking to lead stuff, does a good job at influencing the group towards fun results.
Oh, we have fun results ... if you know what I mean. lol Yeah, I sort of lead a bit ... but it's tiring and I can't stand it. So I'm going to stop trying and see if another leader emerges from the ruins.

Starting rehearsals again this week. Can't wait. lol I wouldn't bother with it except it's a compulsary uni subject. We're marked as a group, so it's not enough for me to just concentrate on doing my part well. It's my fault really - because I left the selection process to the last minute, and surprise - there were only slackers and confused people left. So we got together . lol They're pretty talented slackers though. (c: We have some good times ... and we winged it spectacularly for our last exam. lol I was especially surprised at the SLI - I thought he was a lost cause, but he pulled something out of nowhere.
LOL about the ENFp and ISTp playing "tangent" music stuff...yeah once it gets shifted over to "relaxed" mode it can be hard to get back on track. This happens to me when I take water breaks in sports. I start talking and then we all forget we're playing some sort of fairly structured game. "Oh right...yeah I guess there's another half? ok. so where did we leave the ball?"
So what do you think about there being a more clearcut thing btwn work and play for Deltas? Do you think that's right?