Quote Originally Posted by MysticSonic
Joy, an 8w7 is the most entrepreneurial of all the types and possesses nearly absurd amounts of energy in pursuing whatever endeavor it wishes to follow. This seems to be quite the opposite of your apparent lack of energy and vivacity, noting the fact that you often complain about your motivation to do things and a confusion between what one should be motivated to do and what one shouldn't be---knowing how to get motivated, primarily. An 8w9, on the otherhand, if you really feel you are as aggressive and authoritative as the description, can make complete sense, due the fact that the 9 presents a sort of lethargic apathy for things and a very family oriented perspective(which I think you have?)Though, personally, 9 sounds to be the most accurate type for you(as you often put motivation as a central problem in your life, a problem many 9s face---and the Enneagram is exactly about what your "central problem" is.)
I think she's a 3 at 9.