Quote Originally Posted by Simon Ssmall View Post
Funny, I never had this problem. In general the other people are envisioning something while I have to constantly make sure they do not.
well as some people have probably realized, this was basically an observation arising from specific disappointment. It happens when the "model" I measure a relationship against is more appealing and interesting than the actual interaction with a person. I'd like a person to be something else, but then it's not super-fair and I should probably just look for something more suitable.